Friday, Aug. 19th --
Kids' first plane ride since Sam Sam's adoption in 2009 |
Temporarily
Lost Item #1—all of our luggage, which included Sam Sam’s prosthetic foot!
Saturday, Aug. 20 --
Crepes! |
(Permanently)
Lost item #2—Carina’s only sweater which stayed at the bottom of the mall’s shopping
cart
Billards in Bogota |
We tried ‘Uber’ as a way to get rides. Victor would like to
say that Uber is Suber-Duber! It’s very fast, cheap and cashless travel. Our Uber
Dude drove us all around in search of the elusive Zuetana Hotel.
Temporarily
Lost item #3—Us
Turns out, there’s a big difference between Calle 17 and
Calle 17a. Turns out again, there is a very small difference between hotels and
houses. We knew we had arrived thanks to the frantic beeping from the phone
with the Uber App, but the place had no sign or any indication that it was a
hotel.
Sunday, Aug 20th --
Our luggage arrived at
our hotel. Yay!
A few hours later, we left cool and cloudy Bogota for a
city-sized sauna called Baranquilla. Baranquilla is the pre-Spanish era word
for “Laughing Devil’s Breath.” Victor just made-up the preceding lie. For a US
northwesterner, living on the northern Pacific coast next to the blessedly cool
and NOT-humid Cascade mountains, the Baranquilla climate is a test of courage. At
one point when Victor exited an air-conditioned car, his glasses actually fogged
up. Yes, they did. Temporarily blind he was.
At one point, the six-lane highway traffic came to a
standstill because a parade of a hundred or so mourners filled the roadway.
They walked behind a sweaty, bleary-eyed, swaying man carrying a liquor bottle.
Directly behind him came some men carrying a cheap casket on their shoulders. Our
driver explained that the parade was at the entry gates of the factory where
the dead man died. Two dozen police officers stood by and let the parade pass. The
kids had questions. It was a sobering drive for our family.
By the time we reached our place to stay, Carina was ‘done’.
Being the main Spanish speaker, she has been managing the trip details (finding
transport, looking for better lodging) and talking to lawyers, besides dealing
with our antsy kids, wondering about our new son, watching poverty and injustice
on display from the airport, and the close-in, clinging, sticky heat had
drained her of her seemingly limitless energy.
Temporarily
Lost item #4—Carina’s sanity
Monday, Aug. 21 --
A night’s sleep in a quiet, cool room
restored Carina. Victor woke up to her usual smiles.
After breakfast, our family sat on the couch and talked
about Jesus and His feeding of the 5000. We talked about Jesus’ provision and
about the disciple’s participation in that provision. Then each of us talked
about how we felt about receiving a new member into our family. We discussed
how Titus might feel about losing the only mom and home he’d ever known. We
prayed that our loving heavenly Father provide for all five of us tomorrow, and
in the days to come. We prayed that we would be His missionaries to Titus. And
we prayed that Titus would quickly know that he has entered a safe and loving
family that he can trust.
Lidia and Sam Sam enjoy the view of Barranquilla seated atop drying underwear. |
Our lawyer took us to ICBF, the government agency that
handles adoptions. I and our two kids joined five other women in a stifling
office smaller than a walk-in closet. Next to Victor, one official lady sipped
hot tea! We wrapped up last minute details, asked questions and requested
copies of our new son’s entire three inch thick file.
Tomorrow, Tuesday, August 23rd --
We will throw a party with presents,
balloons, cake and sodas. The ladies in the tiny office told us that this is
the standard way to meet a new child. And that’s how Titus will be introduced
into our very nervous, but excited family.
Temporarily
Lost item #5—The comfort of a family who all feel at home with each other.
This was a truly enjoyable account. Cheers to Victor for all the humor! Praying for all of you as you bond with your new son.
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I love all of this. Praying for all of you. Went to MP3 open house and saw your family's name, thinking of you and your adventures as a family of five.
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