Good news! There’s a strong chance that we’ll be
travelling to Colombia this summer!
In March of last year all of our paperwork was
completed and we were approved to adopt two kids from Colombia. It’s been over
one long year since our last blog post. We’ve done some high-quality waiting
during that time. Our hopes then were for a boy and a girl, between the ages of
4 and 8, who could have some physical special needs.
Two months ago we received information and a video
about a boy we had found on list of 500 waiting kids. These lists are cryptic, at best: you don’t get much more information than
birthdates, siblings, sex, and their special need. Sometimes, there’s a description of his or
her character or desires. We were taken
with what was written about this particular little six-year-old:
He
likes to watch soccer and plays as a goalie.
He is
very intelligent and wants a family and legs.
Mentally,
he is sane.
He wants a family and legs??? Yes. He was
born with arthrogryposis, which for him means that his very thin legs are
somewhat twisted and stuck in the wrong positions. It appears that he can’t
bend one of his knees at all. And that means that he doesn’t walk. The good
news is that arthrogryposis is not progressive.
However, we won’t know how much our medical system will be able to help
him unless or until he arrives here. Happily, Sam Sam’s prosthetists at Seattle
Children’s watched the video and said there was a lot that could be done to
help kids like him. It may be that his
legs can be made to be more useful to him soon after he arrives in the USA. And
who knows what biomedical engineers will dream up in the coming decades?
Even if he doesn’t ever walk, after watching video
footage of him going about his day, we have the impression that he is quite
able to overcome a variety of physical barriers. He cannot stand up, but we have seen him
climbing stairs, playing goalie in a pick-up neighborhood kid’s futbol game,
managing the inside edge of a swimming pool, getting his pants on and pedaling
a hand-crank tricycle. (When’s the last time you put on your pants without
bending your knees?) At the age of six he has the upper torso of a gymnast. He
is also quite the charmer! Watching his interactions with others, we’ve
garnered that he looks like a kid who trusts his caretakers and who can relax
and be goofy. That is very encouraging to us.
We have an ‘in-the-meantime’ name for him, “Titus
Imago Kozaczuk.” “Tito” is Spanish for Titus – and we think that it’s a good
nickname too. On March 4th we sent Colombia a letter of intent to
adopt Tito!
We looked for a potential sibling to adopt along
with him, but just after Easter, we learned that Colombia will not allow us to
adopt two unrelated children at the same time.
If we really want to pursue an adoption of two kids, they would need to
be siblings, and therefore we would also need to say “no” to Tito. Doing either of these two things would be
difficult. We have grown a bit attached
to the little guy for one, and for two, we have not seen siblings under ten
years old in over a year of searching.
Therefore, we are moving forward with Tito’s
adoption. One new child may very well be more than enough for our family.
We recognize God’s sovereignty and wisdom will be in
effect as Tito faces an enormous change in his circumstances. And then Tito will also cause all of our
family members to ‘scoot over’ in various ways.
But it is in these changes where the excitement lies.
Now to talk money.
First of all, we need to give everyone a great big THANK YOU. ALL the stateside adoption expenses are paid
for, and all of it was paid through gifts from you, our friends and family. We
are incredibly grateful. The only costs
not yet covered are the upcoming travel costs to Colombia. We estimate spending
about $10,000 on this trip. The biggest
expenses will be airfare for four going and five coming home, plus one month of
food and lodging. If you have not
experienced the joy of contributing to this great mission of bringing home an
orphan, there is still time, and there is more than one way to help:
I’ve
listed three different ways you can donate from your finances on the upper left
side of this page.
- We are
accepting air miles. We have enough
Alaska air miles for two of us already.
- If you
live nearby, you can donate stuff for our fundraiser garage sale. The deadline to receive garage sale donations
fall appropriately on Colombian Mother’s Day, May 10th.
- Also
if you are able, please attend our garage sale on May 14. Proceeds from the sale will be divided
between our family and another family who is adopting a son from China.
- If by chance
you own a vacation home in Barranquilla, Colombia, please talk to us!!
I’ve
listed three different ways you can donate from your finances on the upper left
side of this page.
- We are accepting air miles. We have enough Alaska air miles for two of us already.
- If you live nearby, you can donate stuff for our fundraiser garage sale. The deadline to receive garage sale donations fall appropriately on Colombian Mother’s Day, May 10th.
- Also if you are able, please attend our garage sale on May 14. Proceeds from the sale will be divided between our family and another family who is adopting a son from China.
- If by chance you own a vacation home in Barranquilla, Colombia, please talk to us!!